Can we fall in love or do we grow in love?

Can we fall in love or do we grow in love? Or is it possible to see someone and love them immediately? What do you think?

Sharla was excited when she told us about her new boyfriend she met two nights ago. She said it was love at first sight. They fell in love the minute their eyes met. The spent half of the night talking dosages and sharing as if they had known each other for years. My friend Jasper says that there is no such thing as love at first sight or falling in love. He says true love takes time to develop. Sharla and her so called boyfriend are only lusting for each other. They have strong attraction and that doesn’t count for love. Love is something much deeper and meaningful he says.

Sharla contends that what they feel is beyond lust and physical attraction. They are genuinely in love with each other. It as if they have bonded with each other.

Do you think this is real love, or is she infatuated by this handsome young man? Put your thoughts and comments below.

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