How to get men to appoach can be ticklish, here is a video I found that might be useful to you. Along with what she says I will include things like
1. Make yourself available. Don’t always stick with a bunch of friends. Men find it very difficult to appoach a girl who is with her friends. Its bad enough being let down privately but to be rejected in front a group of other people can be very daunting. So make some space and make it easier for him to approach.