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Should we love someone because of their physical beauty?

Hilton — Sun, 10 May 2009 12:11:49 +0000

Recentlly I had a heated discussion with female friend of mine who contented that men who love women for their body and beautiful face are shallow. She feels that we should look pass what someone look like and see the inner beauty.

I told her while that is the ideal, men are hard wired to look at beauty too. We just can’t help ourselves, thats just the way God created us. Women do like good looking men too. Many women told me that they don’t want men who are shorter than them.

Why does beauty factor so much in our relationship making decisions? Listen to this clip and add your comments below

Are men only attracted to beauty in women?

Hilton — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 22:46:45 +0000

Men, beauty and attraction — what is the relationship?

Its no secret that men are definitely attracted to physical beauty. From the pope and president to the peasant in the field, all are wired to secretly, (if not longingly) admire beautiful women. In fact Willard Harley, who wrote the book “His Needs, Her needs,” contends that beauty is an actual need in men. It never goes away. The real question is — is beauty the most important factor men use in determining which woman he would pick.

Many women spend all day and night worrying about their looks and value. They dread getting old as some thing that would cause them to loose ratings. One girl told me she didn’t give her child breast milk because she felt it would spoil her breast. Another dreaded having children for fear she would not regain her flat stomach.

I am happy to report that for most men beauty only initially attract the eyes, its the character that secures his heart. The type of persons you are truly binds and bonds a man’s heart to you. It is how you make him feel when he is with you, that would make a significant difference in whether he chooses to stay with you or not.

Finally most men today tend to really look to see if he can “settle down” with the type of person you are.

Do you think this is true? What has been your experience about this matter?

What are men attracted to in women?

Hilton — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 07:51:10 +0000

I have contented for a long time that men have a NEED for beauty in women. We are hardwired this way. I know we can debate the meaning of the word “beauty” but men tend to instintively look at several things on the women’s body.

Body shape
hips
breast
face
skin
hair
stomach

Women, inspite of the protest, know this. No wonder there is a billion-dollar beauty and fitness industry.

I think that these factors crudely indicate the fertility and health of a woman. Any way here is a quick video that shows what men instictively look for in women. But before you do remember “beauty attracts the eyes, character secures the heart.’”