Which types of women do you think men go for or marry?

You might be thinking of women with long hair, beautiful faces, long legs and slender bodies. Not really. Admittedly these features may draw a lot of attention, but not necessarily secure men’s hearts.

The women men want to spend their lives with are those who are genuinely interested in them. Women who are really interested in a man’s well being, his future and what he does for a living are men magnets. Not those who are preoccupied with what they look like or what they could get or even how men would treat them.

John Molloy of the Marriage Licence Bureau interviewed 410 men and 376 women and found among other things, that women who showed interest and concern for a man’s “health, career and future” were more likely to get married than others.

Molloy tells a story of a guy Dave. He was apparently looking sickly at a party and a girl Annie asked him if he was feeling well. He declared he was feeling great, but after touching his forehead she told him that he was an idiot and insisted on driving him home, because he had a very fever.  He accepted because he wanted to make a pass on her. She would have none of it, however.  On arriving at his house she explained to his family that he was sick and they should make him go to bed and she promptly left. His family teased him about Annie, but the funny thing was – he didn’t even have her number.  His sister helped him to get it and he didn’t stop until he got Annie to go out with him. They eventually got married.

Annie stood out in Dave’s mind not because she was cute, glamorous or fancy but simply because she was genuinely concerned with his well being.

I could never forget Kirsty. When she found out I was vegetarian she sent me a list of vegetarian restaurants in London. She also went through the trouble of looking up possible jobs vacancies in my line of work when I was job hunting.  She was so caring that she has made an indelible mark on the memory cells of my brain.

Showing real care and concern for other people will make you very attractive to them. Start caring for and showing concern for men and you will be shocked at the number of them who will want to date you. Secondly they would also speak good things about you and your reputation will even make other men very curious about meeting and possibly dating you.

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Be honest are you scared that you are growing old and have no prospects of a husband, man, boyfriend or children? Maybe your biological clock has started to tick.

What is biological a biological clock?

Women are usually said to have biological clocks. This is a time when women (usually late 20′s – early 30′s) start seriously considering settling down (marrying) and having children. In fact they begin worry about it especially if there are no immediate prospects in sight. Their maternal instict kicks in and they get a certain sensation every time they see or hold a child.

It is generally thought that over 30 the chances of marrying lessen with each passing year, because men seem to prefer younger suitors.

Similarly the probability of having children also decreases and there are a lot more health risk associated with process of getting pregnant and giving birth as you progress towards 40 and beyond.

Do men have biological clocks?

Brilliant question! And the surprising answer is yes, but not in exactly the same way and time as women.

John Molloy says it best: “They are not worried about being able to physically father a child but being a father to the child.” In other words there comes a time when men think they need to have children before they become too old to grow and bond with a child.

John in his book “Why men marry some women and not others” says”They want to be young enough when their sons come along to teach them them all things fathers teach their sons – to ride a bicycle, to fish, play football etc.”

When does a man’s bio-clock start ticking?

1.       After men finish ‘sowing their wild oats’ (chasing and having as much sex as they can), they tend to get tired of this behaviour and want desire a more settled life.

2.       Men also want to be financially stable and secure. They tend to either finish their studies or settled into a career before they start seriously considering marrying or starting a family. It as if they want to be sure that they can provide for a family before they start one.

3.       Men who have strong moral, traditional or ethical values also have strong biological clocks, because their religious values prevent them from having premarital or irresponsible sex.

How can you tell what is a man’s biological time?

• A man who is tired of the singles scene and wants to get on with life
• One who has been living independently for some time in a house/flat of his own, may be considering how to seriously get someone to share his life with
• One whose friends and siblings are married or in serious committed relationships. He will be subconsciously like the odd one out and want to get a partner too due to the social pressure
• Late 30′s to early 40′s tend to begin to think that they better get the children soon before they get too old to cope with one

Should I wait until my man’s bio-clock start even if I am ready now?

There is no guarantee when a man’s bio-clock will kick in. You may frustrate yourself (and him too) trying to consciously or subconsciously force the issue.  It’s best to look for someone who wants the same thing as you. There are lots of single available men who are looking for nice women like you.

Paradoxically, the act of moving on with your life my just be the thing to activate his bio-clock. However don’t use this as a gimmick because it will not work in the long term.