1. Insist on couple time
2. Keep your promises
3. Praise each other in public and share constructive feedback privately
4. Touch each other often
5. Share and support your partners dream without losing sight of
   your own
6. Read and respect each others signals
7. Laugh together, pray together often

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1. Smile at him often

2. Compliment him about the way he looks, dresses, work etc.

3. Play fight with him e.g. Jokingly punch or play a boxing match

4. Help him with some work, project or event he is planning.

5. Listen to him.

6. Challenge him to become a better person.

7. Do not take crap from him. Confront him if he embarrass, belittles or hurt you or other people. He will admire you for standing up to him.

9. Beleive in him even when he doubts himself.

10. Be there for him if he is going through a bad batch or rough times.

11. Give him space, dont crowd him too much.

12. Dont overwhelm him. Give him a chance to miss you.

13. Make it OK for him to leave if he wants to.

14. If he wants you to, go with him to places like football or fishing.

15. Talk favourably about him to others especially his friends.

Well this approach can work and has worked with some men who like to be know exactly where they stand with a woman. However most men find this to be some what anti-climatic. They do like, love and are attracted to some intrigue, suspense and challenge.  The challenge of conquering a woman’s heart. This effort makes them not only value the woman but also makes them feel proud of his accomplishment. Men do love the chase.

There is however a time and place to share your feelings, but it not at the beginning. It should be when enough rapport is established.

Let me explain. Most undomesticated cats love a good meal of lizards or rats. However, a baked or stewed rat is not very appealing to them. They love to hunt, chase and even play with their meal before they devour it. Somehow it seems much more fulfilling and appetizing to go through this process. Similarly, men, even modern men are hard wired to hunt, chase and secure a woman’s romantic attention. If he gets it too quickly and easily he may not relish the relationship as much as if he had to work for it.

That does not mean you should play too hard to get either. Yesterday my 4 year-old son wanted me to catch him. Interestingly he ran near enough to my hands to make it possible but far enough so that I had to stretch and get up to do so. So you should be like the bird that wants to be caught, while hopping within reach of the bird catcher.

Again let me say, there is a time to declare your feelings, emotions and heart. But this should not be too soon, too quick or too eagerly. Have you ever noticed some men tend to only use women who deeply love them and would do anything for them and go girls who either don’t want them or don’t really care.

This principle is not cast in stone. There are exceptions to the rule, but be careful about how easily your share your feelings. Play your romantic card close to your chest, especially in the beginning stages of a possible relationship.

Sheena is deeply in love with Benjanmin. He is so cool, intelligent and charming. The problem is that she is not very sure that he likes her. Sometimes she thinks he does, by he way he smiles at her and some of the things he would say. At other times she is confused, because he would treat rather professionallly.

Her  heart is bursting with admiration and warm feelings.

Should she come clean and declare you love? Should she share her feelings with him, before some other girl snatch him up?

What do you think she should do?

I told her while that is the ideal, men are hard wired to look at beauty too. We just can’t help ourselves, thats just the way God created us. Women do like good looking men too. Many women told me that they don’t want men who are shorter than them.

Why does beauty factor so much in our relationship making decisions? Listen to this clip and add your comments below

Well I was checking out my friend’s Julie Ann web site and found this rather interesting bit of info I want to share with you. Feel free to record your opinion in the comments box bellow.

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http://julieannryan.com/researchinformation.aspx

It can be very difficult to tell if the feeling you have for someone is genuine love. Here I discuss how to tell if you are in love. Listen and give us your comments about it below.

Well today I want to share 15 things that attractive and romantic-magnets have in common. If you observe them carefully you will find most if not all of these qualities. In future post I will actually go into each of these in details.

16 THINGS THAT ATTRACT PEOPLE’S ROMANTIC ATTENTION AND INTEREST TO YOU.

1. Self confidence/assurance
2. Composure, the way you carry yourself and your body
3. Intelligence and wisdom
4. Friendliness
5. Femininity/masculinity
6. Being at ease with your body
7. Cleanliness/neatness/being well groomed
8. Independence
9. Having a full and active life
10. Healthy appearance
11. Being real — not phony, fake, haughty or puffed up
12. Contentment
13. Being physically fit
14. A pleasant voice and tone
15. Happiness
16. Assertiveness. Being able to tactfully assert and express your feelings, opinion and needs despite what others think or say.

Ooops I forgot one important one:

- Having clear principles, boundaries and borders

I think that should be 17 (I am human – smile).

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There are many ways you can do this without having your self-esteem dragged in the dust. Here is a simple technique I shared on a radio talk show in christmas.