How can you become extremely attractive to men

What is the single most attractive feature of a woman?

Do you think that the most attractive thing a woman can have is her face or body – Pretty face and sexy body?

Some people say that they way you dress, walk and talk is very essential in attracting men. Others claim that you need to think positively about yourself. They say you must be attractive to yourself before you can become attractive to men.

Well all of the above are true. But there is something missing. In fact I will go as far as to say that  without this missing part, everything else will fail when it comes to attracting and keeping men in a relationship.

While it is true that you need to love yourself and have a positive self image, you do not have to wait until you have total self confidence before attracting men. In fact your confidence can grow as you attract men. In other words instead of waiting until you have total self confidence – which may never happen – why not interact with men and as they respond to you, your confidence will increase. Think about it, when learning to drive did you wait until you were totally sure about yourself as a driver to go on the road. As you drove a car (with all your uncertainties) you became more competent and your driving confidence increased.

Let’s get back to the issue of things that attract men.

Men are powerfully attracted to you just being a woman. Men are magnetized to the feminine aspect of you. Your femininity your femaleness is one of the greatest attractive features.

What is femininity or femaleness?

First let’s make it clear what femininity is NOT about

One face book group (Feminine not Feminist) puts it nicely and succinctly

“It’s not about being

• Sexy or hot,
• Manipulative or controlling,
• Coquettish,
• Flirtatious,
• Giggly or annoying… “

They go on to say that “femininity is about:

1.       Being soft and delicate but not fragile…

2.       Being strong and feisty but staying sweet and adorable…

3.       Remaining firm and uncompromising while simultaneously being submissive and respectful…

4.       Staying charmingly childlike while angelically principled…

5.       Having a great sense of humour, a highly developed sense of self-worth…

6.       Valuing yourself enough to expect someone to take care of you just because you’re worth it.”

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How do you move your relationship to the next level – marriage?

If you are good friends how do you go about telling or asking your friend to progress the relationship to marriage?

Or if you are in a long term relationship how can you go about getting your partner to want to move the relationship up to marriage?

This is what Janet wanted to do with her 2 year relationship with John. He has

n’t popped the question but Janet do not have eternity to wait. She is thirty and would love to marry and have children before forty.

I told her she would have to be strong and withdraw from supplying the emotional, intimate and recreational needs of John. He gets his needs met and he is happy. Why bother to move the relationship to the next level or get married when its so easy to continue life as it is.

Here are some of the things I suggested to her if she wanted him to move the relationship to marriage:

1. Stop making him your world. Get your life back
2. Get know friends or reacquaint yourself with your former friends
3. Get new hobbies and sports
4. Stop calling him and when he calls do not spend more than 10-15 minutes on the phone to him
5. Let him know that you are busy and will not be able to see him for a days (may next week wednesday)
6. If you are bold tell him that “I would love to get married to a person like you, but I don’t have eternity, so I just can’t stay in a relationship that is not going anywhere.”
7. Be prepared to leave

You will be surprised that you partner would move the relationship to the next level if you are serious and mean what you say.

If you are in a relationship and you want to know exactly how to move the relationship to the next level get in contact with me immediately. Info[at]hiltonsamuel.com

Check out this short clip and give me your ideas on how to move a relationship to the next level

Are you having relationship problems like Julie?

Nothing she does seem to be able to satisfy her long time boyfriend Jake.  He always criticise, quarrel or picks at her and what she does.  Having this type of relationship problem can drive you mad.

What can you do if it seems that you can never please your partner.  You do everything you can think of and yet it never enough.  Here are several  things you can do if you are having this type of relationship issue.

1. Find an appropiate time and tell him or her that because the relationship is important to you, you would really like to make him/her happy. Timing is important because there may be times when they are either in a hurry or simple grumpy. I know that the worst time of the day to approach me to talk about anything is when I am ready to go to sleep.
   • Ask him/her to give 3 things you can do to at least make him/her smile or feel that the relationhips is improving
2. If the person won’t open up to you find a trusted mutual friend and ask them to find out what you can do to recapture your partners heart.
3. Make a list of things that you have done in the past that made your partner very happy and try doing them again. You must have been doing something before that made them fall in love with you. Nobody chooses to get into a relationship with someone else who is going to make them miserable. Most people love and commit to someone else who is making them feel happy, loved, esteem and great. Try and remember that little things you use to do and start doing them again
4. Write down things that your spouse is saying about you and what you do that makes them upset and avoid doing them. It is very important to your relationship that you not only hear what your spouse is saying but you actually listen to the feelings behind the words. If you begin to avoid what upsets, or frustrate him/her your relationship problems will begin to improve tremendously.
5. Ask yourself everyday – What can I do today to bring a smile to may partners face. It might be a simple think like telling or reminding that they mean the world to you, giving them a non sexual kiss/peck/pinch etc. Or it could be sending a text or taking them for a walk. Believe me joy can begin to rain in your problematic relationship.
6. Realize that you need to have clear boundaries about how far you go to try and please someone. Sometimes just being able to be assertive and be clear about how far you are able to go to please someone is enough for them to recognise that you will not be a door mat. You will try to make them happy but you too have needs that should be supplied. A great example of this is the movie “Fried green tomatoes” (a weird name). In it a house wife is forever trying to appeal and please her husband, however when she got to the point where she gives up and began doing things for herself he suddenly should great interest in her.
7. Finally recognise and accept that there are some people who are perfectionist and can never be pleased.

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How to tell if he is the one – can this be the right man for you?.

Have you ever had strong feelings for someone but you are not sure about him? You feel that he just may be the one however there may be some doubts lingering at the back of your mind. Or he may be pressing you to take the relationship to the next level and you want to know if this is the right decision. Or you may love him and want to marry him but feel scared about what would happen in the future.

Would your marriage/relationship become a booming success or would you get a broken heart – shattered dreams?

Is he the one or must you search for another?

There are several ways you go about making this decision but here is one of the best method you can employ in making the best decision and deciding if this is the right man for you.

First think about what it would be like 10, 20, or 30 years from now.

1. Think about what type of husband he would make.
   • Is he husband material?
   • Would he be able to provide your emotional, physical and financial needs?
2. Is he the type of person you can weather the storms of life with?
3. What type of father would this person make?
4. Would he be the type of person you feel you can grow old with?
5. Can you see yourself waking up and living with this person every day?
6. Can he bring you happiness – not just immediate gratification but lasing happiness?

If you can answer yes to the questions above, well baby you have the right man for you.

What if you are sure about most of the question but unsure about some of them? Then you need to ask yourself this powerful question – Is he willing to learn or grow in this area? Is he teachable.

Remember no man will be 100%, however if he has the right spirit he will be willing to do what is necessary to make a brilliant relationship

I have helped many like you to secure the right man for them. If you want to be sure your making the right decision get in touch for a free session with me. Call +44 (0)7903317426 or email me info[at]hiltonsamuel.com (replace [at] with @).

Talk soon

Hilton

Would you like to have a great relationship like Barack and Michelle Obama? I just came across a brilliant piece in Essence magazine which identified 7 things generic cialis forum that the Obamas are doing which makes their relationship so magnificent. 7 things that you can easily do too. They include:

1. Insist on couple time
2. Keep your promises
3. Praise each other in public and share constructive feedback privately
4. Touch each other often
5. Share and support your partners dream without losing sight of
   your own
6. Read and respect each others signals
7. Laugh together, pray together often

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Should you tell a guy your true feelings for him? Well, this can be dangerous if there is no established rapport between you; even then it may not work in your best interest. Here are some risk free ways to indicate your interest in someone without dragging your integrity in the dust.

1. Smile at him often

2. Compliment him about the way he looks, dresses, work etc.

3. Play fight with him e.g. Jokingly punch or play a boxing match

4. Help him with some work, project or event he is planning.

5. Listen to him.

6. Challenge him to become a better person.

7. Do not take crap from him. Confront him if he embarrass, belittles or hurt you or other people. He will admire you for standing up to him.

9. Beleive in him even when he doubts himself.

10. Be there for him if he is going through a bad batch or rough times.

11. Give him space, dont crowd him too much.

12. Dont overwhelm him. Give him a chance to miss you.

13. Make it OK for him to leave if he wants to.

14. If he wants you to, go with him to places like football or fishing.

15. Talk favourably about him to others especially his friends.

Sharing your true feeling with a man you admire can make or break your chances of love. Some people believe you should not play games. You should be mature and upfront with your feelings and intentions.

Well this approach can generic cialis prices work and has worked with some men who like to be know exactly where they stand with a woman. However most men find this to be some what anti-climatic. They do like, love and are attracted to some intrigue, suspense and challenge.  The challenge of conquering a woman’s heart. This effort makes them not only value the woman but also makes them feel proud of his accomplishment. Men do love the chase.

There is however a time and place to share your feelings, but it not at the beginning. It should be when enough rapport is established.

Let me explain. Most undomesticated cats love a good meal of lizards or rats. However, a baked or stewed rat is not very appealing to them. They love to hunt, chase and even play with their meal before they devour it. Somehow it seems much more fulfilling and appetizing to go through this process. Similarly, men, even modern men are hard wired to hunt, chase and secure a woman’s romantic attention. If he gets it too quickly and easily he may not relish the relationship as much as if he had to work for it.

That does not mean you should play too hard to get either. Yesterday my 4 year-old son wanted me to catch him. Interestingly he ran near enough to my hands to make it possible but far enough so that I had to stretch and get up to do so. So you should be like the bird that wants to be caught, while hopping within reach of the bird catcher.

Again let me say, there is a time to declare your feelings, emotions and heart. But this should not be too soon, too quick or too eagerly. Have you ever noticed some men tend to only use women who deeply love them and would do anything for them and go girls who either don’t want them or don’t really care.

This principle is not cast in stone. There are exceptions to the rule, but be careful about how easily your share your feelings. Play your romantic card close to your chest, especially in the beginning stages of a possible relationship.

Should you tell a man that you love or admire him? Or should you wait around cialis 10mg price for him to get the hint and approach you?

Sheena is deeply in love with Benjanmin. He is so cool, intelligent and charming. The problem is that she is not very sure that he likes her. Sometimes she thinks he does, by he way he smiles at her and some of the things he would say. At other times she is confused, because he would treat rather professionallly.

Her  heart is bursting with admiration and warm feelings.

Should she come clean and declare you love? Should she share her feelings with him, before some other girl snatch him up?

What do you think she should do?

Recentlly I had a heated discussion with female friend of mine who contented that men who love women for their body and beautiful face are shallow. She feels that we should look pass what someone non prescription cialis look like and see the inner beauty.

I told her while that is the ideal, men are hard wired to look at beauty too. We just can’t help ourselves, thats just the way God created us. Women do like good looking men too. Many women told me that they don’t want men who are shorter than them.

Why does beauty factor so much in our relationship making decisions? Listen to this clip and add your comments below

What do women look for in men?

Well I was checking out my friend’s Julie Ann web site and found this rather interesting bit of info I want to share with you. Feel free to record your opinion in the comments box bellow.

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