When was the last time a man approached you? Do men regularly initiate conversation or flirt with you? If not then you have a serious romantic problem which can be fixed with 5 simple steps.

I remember Beverly, a former client of mine telling me that men seem to scared of her. She didn’t know how to get men to approach her.

“They don’t approach me,” she said with a distant look in her eyes.

“Quite frankly though, I think that a man who doesn’t have the guts to approach me isn’t of any worth. I like bold men,” she added. Actually I think she was trying to rationalize for the problem she was having.

In delving more into the issue I found that Beverly was quite aware that she has a rather serious countenance, something that can put people off, even though she was one of the sweetest girls I have met.

“But that’s the way God made me I can’t change that,” she said emphatically. As tactfully as I could I helped her to realize that there are indeed ways we can behave and actions we can take to improve, what I call, your “A.Q” (approachability quotient). Now Beverly is being regularly approached by all sorts of men. Here are 4 simple ways to improve your A.Q

1. Wear a pleasant countenance
   1. Some people, like Beverly, claim they can’t change their countenance, but you indeed can. Your posture and facial expression are usually a reflection of the things that occupy our minds. Has anyone ever said to “you look worried/down/sad,” or “you are looking happy, your face is glowing.” This is because our facial and body muscles buying cialis respond and react subconsciously to what we are dwelling on in our minds.
   2. If you find yourself absorbed by alot of worrying thoughts and pressure, your face and body will reflect it. Practice changing these thoughts and think of a funny event/movie/person. Reflect on times when you did something great which made you feel wonderful. If you practice these long enough you will find that without effort your face and features will look relaxed and inviting.
2. Smile – you are never fully dressed until you smile
   1. A smile puts people at ease: it says that you are a friend and not a foe.
   2. A smile is inviting – gives men a cue that they will not be rejected; I will welcome a conversation with you.
3. Treat everyone you meet with grace and kindness. This is not only a very attractive quality it also magnetize people (men) to you. The way you treat and respond to other people to a large extent determines if and how people (men) approach you. If you are brash and caustic to people who you think are not in your league, then other people and men in particular will think that you are not a nice person to approach and get to know. Even the way you treat down-and-outs (poor, beggars, homeless) count in how people view you. Without you realizing it people are always evaluating you and checking you out.
4. Be available. This is a huge mistake I see girls making all the time.  They always go out in groups and packs.  While that is not a problem, they unconsciously stick only to the pack while they are out.  Women who travel in packs and groups are less likely to be approached. Men find it’s easier to approach a girl on her own than with a group of friends. If he is rejected then he won’t have to feel embarrassed in front of all her friends.
   1. If you go out with your friends always try to spend some time on your own, a man may just want such a moment to approach you.
5. Talk to men. This does not mean you should make romantic advances on men, far from it. It means that as a general rule to you should be friendly to everyone you meet. Don’t be afraid to say “hi/hello/how are you?” to anyone and everyone. This may just be the excuse a shy guy is looking to chat with you. When you do this to everyone (men, women, children) men will see you as a friendly, nice and approachable person.

Following my recent blog post “Do men have biological clocks?”, colourfulradio.com interviewed me on the issues of men and their biological clock. Here is a clip of the interview listen in and add your opinion below.

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Is your biological clock ticking?

Be honest are you scared that you are growing old and have no prospects of a husband, man, boyfriend or children? Maybe your biological clock has started to tick.

What is biological a biological clock?

Women are usually said to have biological clocks. This is a time when women (usually late 20′s – early 30′s) start seriously considering settling down (marrying) and having children. In fact buy cialis 10mg they begin worry about it especially if there are no immediate prospects in sight. Their maternal instict kicks in and they get a certain sensation every time they see or hold a child.

It is generally thought that over 30 the chances of marrying lessen with each passing year, because men seem to prefer younger suitors.

Similarly the probability of having children also decreases and there are a lot more health risk associated with process of getting pregnant and giving birth as you progress towards 40 and beyond.

Do men have biological clocks?

Brilliant question! And the surprising answer is yes, but not in exactly the same way and time as women.

John Molloy says it best: “They are not worried about being able to physically father a child but being a father to the child.” In other words there comes a time when men think they need to have children before they become too old to grow and bond with a child.

John in his book “Why men marry some women and not others” says”They want to be young enough when their sons come along to teach them them all things fathers teach their sons – to ride a bicycle, to fish, play football etc.”

When does a man’s bio-clock start ticking?

1.       After men finish ‘sowing their wild oats’ (chasing and having as much sex as they can), they tend to get tired of this behaviour and want desire a more settled life.

2.       Men also want to be financially stable and secure. They tend to either finish their studies or settled into a career before they start seriously considering marrying or starting a family. It as if they want to be sure that they can provide for a family before they start one.

3.       Men who have strong moral, traditional or ethical values also have strong biological clocks, because their religious values prevent them from having premarital or irresponsible sex.

How can you tell what is a man’s biological time?

• A man who is tired of the singles scene and wants to get on with life
• One who has been living independently for some time in a house/flat of his own, may be considering how to seriously get someone to share his life with
• One whose friends and siblings are married or in serious committed relationships. He will be subconsciously like the odd one out and want to get a partner too due to the social pressure
• Late 30′s to early 40′s tend to begin to think that they better get the children soon before they get too old to cope with one

Should I wait until my man’s bio-clock start even if I am ready now?

There is no guarantee when a man’s bio-clock will kick in. You may frustrate yourself (and him too) trying to consciously or subconsciously force the issue.  It’s best to look for someone who wants the same thing as you. There are lots of single available men who are looking for nice women like you.

Paradoxically, the act of moving on with your life my just be the thing to activate his bio-clock. However don’t use this as a gimmick because it will not work in the long term.

What do women look for in men?

Well I was checking out my friend’s Julie Ann web site and found this rather interesting bit of info I want to share with you. Feel free to record your opinion in the comments box bellow.

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