Do you want to know how to keep a man interested in you?

Here are 11 ways to keep your man interested in you.

How do you actually getting your boyfriend, husband, spouse, partner or man deeply interested in you and the relationship?

This guy has some really great ideas on how to keep a relationship with a man. He is funny and also crude – he swears a lot.

If you can get pass his swearing you can pick up some really great secret tips on how to keep a man.

• Don’t ask single women advice on how to keep your man. I totally agree. Single women are great expert on one thing single-hood. If they know how to get and keep a relationship they would be in one right now.
• He says that you should complement your man. Actually I would say that compliments are for women. You need to praise, and appreciate your man. Praise him for his talents and anything he has done or achieved. Show appreciation for things he does that makes you feel happy. Believe me as simple as that sounds you will be shocked that he will keep doing it.
• Don’t try to change a man. Hmmm. I have a different angle to what this guy is saying. Yes don’t try to change a man, but guess what? You can influence a man to do lots of things. Use your feminine power to influence a man, and he will stay with you a very long time. If you don’t know how to do this check out this blog or contact me right now using the contact form here. Never compromise!
• Learn what your man is like and work with him. Yep you are right dude. Study his personality and idiosyncrasies. The more you know about him the better it is to work with him and the longer the relationship will work.
• Manage your jealous streak. Yes you will sometimes feel threatened by other girls/women who look good and who try to dominate his time. However if you over react all the time then you will eventually drive him away. Creating a self fulfilling prophecy - He will lose interest in you and the relationship.
• Keep up appearances. Men like beauty. No you do not have to get a boob job or anything like that but keep fit and eat healthy. You will feel better, live longer and keep his attention for a long time. Make the effort.
• Spontaneity. Surprise your man from time. Cook his favourite dinner, buy a gift for him even when its not his birthday. Do something that you know will make him feel good when he least expect. It could be something you have said you will never do but he wants you to do. Having a u-turn on something will endear him more to you and keep his interest in you.
• OK. This one is a bit sensitive for women. Women need to talk. They love to talk and they will talk all day, every day if given the opportunity. This can drive a man nuts. I will suggest that you leave your girly talk for your girl friends. Give your man a break from the constant chatter. Actually I am talking about ordinary conversation. Nagging and complaining are relationship sins which can get you excommunicated fast.
• Be sexually open and confident. I agree 100%. Men love sex – all variation of sex. However this does not mean you have to lower your integrity. If there is something you definitely don’t feel comfortable doing, politely decline and explain why e.g. two-some. However be open to new ideas, suggestions and positions. Sexually satisfy your man – this will aid in keeping his interest in you.
• Support your man dreams, goals and drive. This is a sublime point, pay attention to it.
• Respect and tolerate a you man’s preferences. Don’t think that your man has to be into everything that you are into e.g. hobbies, habits and career. Understand that he may not want to do it, however if he is disrespectful about these things that you need to move on. It will not work. Don’t force use your influence and maybe he will eventually come around to liking the idea.

This is a great tutorial that will help you to keep your man for a very long time, however he peppered it with a lot of swearing, if you cannot stomach swear words then you I have summarized the points about for you.

Lets hear it dude – next time be respectful of people you are talking to and stop the swearing!

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If you are single and searching for your soulmate the clip below may be of interest to you

An army of single women from every walk of life (producers, lawyers. stock brokers, lawyers, preachers).

Some have been celebate for years (8 year), in fact one is a 45 year old virgin – imagine that!

Why?

• No quality men
• More men than women
• some men are gay
• Lots in jail

What can you do if you don’t want to be single and want to be a wife?

1. Be open to the possibilty of getting a great man who may not be of your ethnicity
2. Travel. Go to places where there are many men. You cannot catch fish in the forest.
3. Ask friends and family to recommend people that may be suitable to you. And be open
4. Extend your options – look into the possibility of older men, divocees or even younger guys
5. Take a second look at people who are/were showing interest in you. You may have passed up some un polished diamonds
6. Be available and let people know that you are available

If you are serious about getting the man who is the right man for you why not let me help you do that.

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Talk soon

Hilton

I was having a chat last night with a long time friend of mine. As per usual I enquired about her single status and what she intends to do about it this year. And as usual she threw the entire responsibility on God.

“When God is ready He will send me the right person for me,” she said. This is despite the fact that she is not only well educated (masters degree) but she is a wonderful specimen of God’s handiwork – a good looking chick!

But this was not what actually got me thinking. She always try to wriggle out of it with these general and evasive statements. What got me pondering and ruminating on the seemingly perpetual single status of hers and (many other single women)  was something she said when I quizzed her more.

“Oh these single men don’t have any courage; no guts. They can’t handle strong single women like me,” she chimed almost triumphantly. She went on to point out that men today are not brave enough, and don’t seem to be able to past some invisible test of courage, leadership and strength she dishes out.

Well the entire conversation occupied my mind on my morning walk.

She is a teacher. What if all or most of her students constantly fail her exams? Are the children to be blamed, or would she have to look at the validity of the test?

Interestingly she doesn’t make a similar connection to the fact that all of the men are failing her romantic hidden curriculum.

While I agree that men need to show bravery, courage and leadership (qualities that are very attractive and necessary for women) is she making it too difficult for men to gain at least a C on her romantic scale?

Obviously you can’t make it too easy. That would be like giving an undomesticated cat stewed rat. The cat loves the fun of hunting, chasing, catching and teasing the rats. Similarly I think that women need to like the bird that wants to be caught. Easy enough that a man won’t think that it’s too much hard work (well nigh impossible) but also challenging enough to help him to rise to the challenge. He indeed needs to sweat a cialis sale little.

Well Hilton, how exactly do you do this?

Here are a couple of ways

1. Always wear a pleasant and welcoming smile. Smiles help to let people know that you are friendly and approachable
2. Don’t be afraid to initiate conversations with others, by simply saying hello, hi, how are you etc. Sometimes other people just need a little encouragement to be able to speak to you.
3. If someone asks you out and you don’ want to go, polite indicate that you can’t make it but you will be going to tennis court on Sunday and he is free to come allow if he wants. (Of course you can substitute tennis for any other activity you regularly engage in)
5. Don’t be too predictable. Sometimes cancel at the last minute or if you have said no to something change your mind a couple days after and do what you said no to before
6. Be patient. Men are also humans who are still in the process of overcoming weaknesses and faults. While you shouldn’t reject them for their faults, still hold them responsible for improving while showing that you understand.

Coming clean and telling someone that you love or fancy them could be a very daunting task. Your pride, ego, masculinity or femininity are all on the line. It’s like walking a romantic plank. You never know if you will drown or be thrown the romantic “life line”.

There are many ways you can do this without having your self-esteem dragged in the dust. Here is a simple technique I shared on a radio talk show in christmas.