Yesterday I came accross an interesting cialis reviews target=”_blank”>request on the internet of a guy who said he has found his soulmate. The problem is he is 45 and married and the person he has fallen in love with (his soulmate) is 18 years.The girls dad, who is about the same age as the guy,  is absolutely furious about the situation.

What is a soul mate? Can our soul mate be married or can we have soulmate connection with someone who is inappropiate for us eg 27 years older or younger?

Briefly a soulmate is a person with whom you connect deeply with. Usually on an emotional and spiritual level. You feel that your souls and spirits seamlessly bond. You have an affinity for each other.

This type of bond can happen naturally or it can be cultivated. This happens when two people spend a lot of time talking to each other sharing deep and private thoughts with each other.

However not every soul connection is right. For example this soul bond that this guy has is very inappropiate, since he is already married and the girl is a teenager. Not many people will sanction this union. Below I discussion the situation in a radio interview.

In the first part I discuss “how to tell if you have found a the right person” and the secound part I share my thoughts on what can be done in this situation.

Have you tried virtually everything and still can’t seem to attract a great boyfriend?

Does it seem like everyone else find it easy to meet and keep romantic partners but you just can’t find someone special?

Do you feel that the people you love and admire don’t feel the same about you and the “undesirables” tend to be killing themselves for you?

Do you feel that life is passing you by in the “single lane”?

If you are as nice as they say you are why are still single?

These are questions that may be bugging you in your quest for a compatible soul mate. There are several answers buy cialis tadalafil to these questions but the first place I want to direct you is to your soul!

With a sheet of paper and a pen find a quiet place, still the stirring of your mind and ask yourself the question “why I am still single?” Write everything that that pops into your mind. After you have finished, read your answers.

After reading each reason ask yourself “what can I do about this?” and write your answers down. You would be very surprised at some of the things your mind will tell you.

Leave this for a couple of days, but still carry your sheet around with you. Your subconscious mind will from time to time give you either new reasons or ideas on what you can do about the reasons you first came up with.

Try this and let me know how if it worked for you. Put your comments in the comment link/box below.

I came accross this video on you tube on how to tell if the you have found your soul mate. Listen to it, read my comments and let me know what you think.

I agree with Elaine that passion can intensify over time with your soul mate?

But should we have to wait to see if it does? What happens when we wait a year or two only to find out that this is not your soul mate?

Its great to have passionate feelings in a relationship, however I don’t actually recommend that you depend on feelings and passion. They can be very misleading and confusing, in fact when we are in love, the emotions of love tend to blurr our judgement. Love, can indeed be blind. Have you ever wondered what you saw in your ex-boyfriend (even though at the time when you were passionately in love, you thought he was Gods gift to you).

I would like to suggest that answer the following 15 questions to know if you have found your soul mate, even if your heart is bursting with passion:

1. Is this a safe person?
2. What do other people say about him?
3. What are his friends like?
4. What’s his family like?
5. How does he treat other people?
6. Would you like your children to become like him?
7. Would you like to be like him?
8. Can you actually make life with him?
9. What is your gut feeling telling you?
10. Does he hide personal information from you?
11. Does he have  conscience?
12. Is he emotionally availabe?
13. Does he have similar values to you?
14. Is he functional, by that I mean would he be able to function as a man should in setting up a home?
15. Does he have relationship skils?

Answering these questions in a ruthlessly objective way (inspite of feelings and passion) will help you to tell if you have found your soul mate.

What do you think Elaine?

I came across this interesting piece of stats from an article “Who wants to marry a soul mate?” from National Marriage Project state of the Union 2001

“Among single men and women, a large majority (88%) also agree that “there is a special person, a soul mate, waiting for you somewhere out there.” And never-married singles are highly confident that they will be successful in locating that soul mate; a substantial majority (87%) agree that they will find that special someone when they are ready to get married.”

Let’s analyse it a little:

1.    Most single people believe that there is A (one) special someone (a soul mate) for them somewhere out there in the world

2.    They believe that when they are ready to get married they will find that person.

That means if you are single you may actually believe that there is only one person that is compatible to you and who will meet your deep emotional and spiritual needs. You may also believe that you will be somehow guided to this person when you are ready to marry.

If there is only one person out there for you, how are you going to meet that person if they are located half the way around the world? Do you believe that your paths will miraculously or magically cross? Or do you believe that it is just going to happen – it’s destined to be!

Well this might just be the case. You may cialis 5mg tablets stumble upon love; love may even stumble onto you, but why not help the process along.

How can I do this? you ask.

Simple, since your soulmate is out there some place amongst the 6-7 billion people on earth, why not develop an action plan to meet as many potential partners in as many different places as possible?

So begin today to become more active in volunteering, going places, visiting distant friends and relatives, joining groups and clubs, becoming involved in projects in foreign lands or event just collecting for charity.

Not only will these experiences enrich your life, but you will meet a wide variety of people one of whom may be your soul mate. One person I know met her soul mate while cooking for a charity and feeding homeless people on Christmas. No not one of the homeless, he was one of the other volunteers.

As dating coach Kira Sabin would say ” go meet love half way!”

In the last post I discussed the concept of getting your soul mate. Now I want to ask you a couple of questions?

1. Do you think that soul mates are born or can we create them? In other words are you expecting someone who is just right for you or do you think you will both have to work at it. Work to transform each other into the right partner?

A friend of mine told me she is not interested in trying to create a partner (she is not God), she simple needs someone who knows how to function properly in  a relationship. What do you think about that?

2. Secondly do you believe that there is only one person for you? Or are several cialis tadalafil 5mg persons, one of whom, can make you romantically happy?

It will be great to hear your views on the matter.

Add your ideas or questions in the comments section below.

If you want to attract your soul mate listen to these short audio tips

How to attract your soul mate part cialis medicine 1

How to attract your soul mate part 2

How to attract your soul mate part 3

How to get your soul mate part 4