Yesterday I came accross an interesting cialis reviews target=”_blank”>request on the internet of a guy who said he has found his soulmate. The problem is he is 45 and married and the person he has fallen in love with (his soulmate) is 18 years.The girls dad, who is about the same age as the guy,  is absolutely furious about the situation.

What is a soul mate? Can our soul mate be married or can we have soulmate connection with someone who is inappropiate for us eg 27 years older or younger?

Briefly a soulmate is a person with whom you connect deeply with. Usually on an emotional and spiritual level. You feel that your souls and spirits seamlessly bond. You have an affinity for each other.

This type of bond can happen naturally or it can be cultivated. This happens when two people spend a lot of time talking to each other sharing deep and private thoughts with each other.

However not every soul connection is right. For example this soul bond that this guy has is very inappropiate, since he is already married and the girl is a teenager. Not many people will sanction this union. Below I discussion the situation in a radio interview.

In the first part I discuss “how to tell if you have found a the right person” and the secound part I share my thoughts on what can be done in this situation.

I came accross this video on you tube on how to tell if the you have found your soul mate. Listen to it, read my comments and let me know what you think.

I agree with Elaine that passion can intensify over time with your soul mate?

But should we have to wait to see if it does? What happens when we wait a year or two only to find out that this is not your soul mate?

Its great to have passionate feelings in a relationship, however I don’t actually recommend that you depend on feelings and passion. They can be very misleading and confusing, in fact when we are in love, the emotions of love tend to blurr our judgement. Love, can indeed be blind. Have you ever wondered what you saw in your ex-boyfriend (even though at the time when you were passionately in love, you thought he was Gods gift to you).

I would like to suggest that answer the following 15 questions to know if you have found your soul mate, even if your heart is bursting with passion:

1. Is this a safe person?
2. What do other people say about him?
3. What are his friends like?
4. What’s his family like?
5. How does he treat other people?
6. Would you like your children to become like him?
7. Would you like to be like him?
8. Can you actually make life with him?
9. What is your gut feeling telling you?
10. Does he hide personal information from you?
11. Does he have  conscience?
12. Is he emotionally availabe?
13. Does he have similar values to you?
14. Is he functional, by that I mean would he be able to function as a man should in setting up a home?
15. Does he have relationship skils?

Answering these questions in a ruthlessly objective way (inspite of feelings and passion) will help you to tell if you have found your soul mate.

What do you think Elaine?

In the last post I discussed the concept of getting your soul mate. Now I want to ask you a couple of questions?

1. Do you think that soul mates are born or can we create them? In other words are you expecting someone who is just right for you or do you think you will both have to work at it. Work to transform each other into the right partner?

A friend of mine told me she is not interested in trying to create a partner (she is not God), she simple needs someone who knows how to function properly in  a relationship. What do you think about that?

2. Secondly do you believe that there is only one person for you? Or are several cialis tadalafil 5mg persons, one of whom, can make you romantically happy?

It will be great to hear your views on the matter.

Add your ideas or questions in the comments section below.

If you want to attract your soul mate listen to these short audio tips

How to attract your soul mate part cialis medicine 1

How to attract your soul mate part 2

How to attract your soul mate part 3

How to get your soul mate part 4